False Relationships

            Have you ever had someone cheat on you? Or say they love you and that you mean everything to them, but then they cheat on you? Well thats so messed up and yes it's happened to me.  That's exactly why I brought it up. Its horrible and I was mad about it. I don't even know why people cheat! I did everything I could and this is how they treat me. It's a huge gap in you life when this happens. You feel unwanted, and you almost rust, and feel broken. Emotionally cheating hurts a lot.  As one statistic proof shows and says :

"The reason most people find intimacy with someone outside of their marriage is because their emotional needs are not being met. In many cases of infidelity it is about wanting to feel emotionally connected to someone." 

Emotionally, it is possible to have feelings for more than one person at a time, and sometimes it's  too many people. Relationships are built on love, and sometimes two people forget to communicate causing unhappiness. And lack of communication. Many people have affairs because they want the thrill of being with someone new. The urge to be with other people excite them  thus they forget about their mate.  About this whole cheating thing, some people don't know how to handle it. To be honest, don't threaten them or taunt them. You may feel the urge to do this, but it won't do you any good. In fact be mature. Just say that I broke up, and you can't come back because I've lost my trust with you. 


    A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person. A cheater may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat on you.  They also might be doing it because they sense you are cheating too. Well their returning the favor for you even if you may not appreciate it, that exactly how they feel. All together nobody likes cheating. But be open to explaining how you feel in a relationship.