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 Lhadze Bosiljevac                              
 Period 1
 Sutherland
 September 28, 2009



                                              What About Q?
                  
           

                      Q is really competative, rude and has anger issues. In these three qoutes, you will see why he fits these descriptions. As you can see, he really likes Lll, but he still will be competative.. And along with that, he still can be very nice. As he said on page 75:

“...but also that I could win, because my paws got a better grip on damp surfaces”

          In this quote, as you can see he is cocky. He loves Lll but at the same time he still competes with her. Yet he still looks at Lll’s flaws. Maybe even if he seems nice, he still has a rude almost pushy side to himself. And he’s full of himself. One reason why he’s so not worth Lll’s time.

     For this second quote, it shows how impatient and how mad he gets. Because it seems as if he can’t deal with himself. And Q also gets upset immediately. This shows in an obvious stand point that he cannot put himself into another persons stand point and shoes.

“ I thought he would never stop. I huffed impatiently , I tried to interrupt him. But what did that saucy Lll do? She encouraged him!”
 
    This  shows that Q can’t let people talk there own minds and is very impatient and can’t express himself before someone can say something. If he wanted Lll and his uncle to shut up, he shouldn’t of brought the whole situtation up. Yet he did anyways, so its his loss. But as you can see, his air head, impatient moves only caused greater grief on himself.

   In this last quote you can see his fear of being alone.

“ The two of us will live here, together!!!! Because the truth was without her, I didn’t feel secure.”

All I have to say is that Q needs to man up and face the fact that not every girl will fall in love with him. His indificincey to  live on his own. Which sounds pathetic.

In the end, Q’s point of view is totally twisted and he needs to think before he acts. He is rude, cocky, mean and very insecure. Who wants someone like that?

Rude comments or are they just mean jokes?

         The element of a joke is the part where its funny, but when people take it too far, it does not become a joke, it's an insult. Sometimes, when it gets to the point to where it is an insult and can cause a HUGE conflict.  And it can lead people to depression or lack of self confidence because you've entered their bubble and made fun of them. It's an enormous put down to some people because making fun of their race, or a personal issue, can serverly hurt them and leave them alone and in fear of the person. Whereas if you tone down the level of insult in a joke, you'll probably be better off. Invoke someone and you might not be in the best position because they might get mad and then you both have the same reaction.  Nobody benifits from that at all. So if your going to say something, say it nicely or if the person doesn't mind you saying the joke then go ahead. But always know the diference between a joke and a rude comment. I know from experince, some jokes are too personal and make you very upset for a long time. Some people say jokes to entertain others, but that never goes to well. I can speak from experience, about making jokes about people that did hurt them, and until I experienced it, I kept it going. But until your in some ones shoes, you never really understand the full fundamental of how much a joke can hurt. Yet racist jokes for example, are not funny at all! They make fun of the beauty of difference in people. So if you going to make a joke, make sure it wont offend others. Because on the long run, you wont make a good name for yourself, AT ALL.

Fashion. Is it who you are

What is fasion? Most people say its a career. But to me, it's a way of expressing yourself, with color, design, innovation, self style, and your inner person. Just like Ale'ah Bashir said on her blog post:

                       "I think fashion is an expression of who you are"

 This I agree  with. Their are a varty of styles, from mature to childish, happy to sad, dark to colorful, striped to plain. My style ish crazy. I'll wear anything dark or sometimes with color.I usually wear something that represents me. Like brass knucles, or swallows sometimes huge bows. My clothes are sometimes way too out there for school, but it's my style.I've gotten the label, which I don't mind myself, as "scene kid". I think fashion is an individuals selection on who they choose to be. What you wear is like a billboard. What ever you wear, you become a neon sign to someone. But sometimes if you dress too inapropriate, then your in deep trouble. Some types of style leads people to sex. Nontheless people still wear the clothing. This quote actually says a lot. Some ethnic  sometimes have the same clothing style. That just what I personally notice. Either way, fashion also shows the best of you and most girls use it to show their framework. Even if your a bit built, or skinnier than a too pick, your always going to have the best trait in you. Some fashion shoes wealth, but if your able to rock a $20 outfit, YOU GO! As you look through the generation, styles change over time. But yet either way, the main styles I've seen tat hasn't changed is the Retro, Causal, Emo, Gothic, And the occasional Skater. But the rest has really developed.  Fashion is also an expression of who you are because models, for instance, are chosen to wear the clothes, as if it was made for them, and if they look good in it, you feel sometimes you will too. And it is a VERY well paying job. From all of this, All I can say is, what you wear, shows the people around you, in one context who you are. So  be expressive, but not over explosive.

Internet liability

Everyone depnds on the internet. It's what make this world revolve. People communicate faster. And people can keep in contact. Contrasting from mail, internet is very well known. Kids and adults of every age are using it to theri advantage. But what if it was crucial, for one moment in you life to get rid of it? What would we do? Could we even live life? That would diminish the amount of elcetricity we use, but we'd probably go crazy. I personally think I do rely on the internet, and what it'sd done to most people is constarining their minds. Devoting them to be on longer, and use it more vigorisly. And even if people say "get away from that computer" non the less, they sdtill get back on themaselves. The internets taking over us all, and theirs no limit. But twhats gona stop this multi billion dollar industury? Civillians?

Does It matter if you Gay Or Bi? Lesbian Or Straight?

This really is bothering me later. Everywhere we go, someone is arguing about same sex marriage or someone being bi. We as Americans have our own rights as citizens to make our own choices about who our mate is. Same sex marriage should be legal and the legislation  has no right to say that people who love each other, even if they are of the same sex, cannot be married. It's a major transition for the younger generation because of all the potential  exposure of this going around and buzzing all over news and websites, the media and even at school. Kids are made fun of because they are a target one of the above and they feel uncomfortable. Others take it too seriously and take it so far the helpless child is forced to kill themselves because they have no one to turn to. This here from  survey:

21% of lesbians die of murder, suicide or traffic accident, which is at a rate of 534 times higher than the number of white heterosexual females aged 25-44 who die of these things(8).


Why are people  murdering, and killing innocent people just like us because they have a sex partner that is of their same gender? And why are they rejected? All being were created equal. It does not matter if they are homo sexual or straight. It does not mean we have to restrict all the things people do so the world is safe and harmless, Homosexual pose no mental threat to anyone, or physical, because they have their own partners. So in the end why does it matter what sex is your interest?

SOCIAL NETWORK!!!!!!!!!!

            I agree with Tony and his group in the debate saying  that social networking is not bad and very useful.

 His quote: "Social networking allows people to talk over long distances."




This is true because I use it to keep in contact with my family in New Mexico and over the U.S. And for my boyfriend to, If it wasn't for the internet and the social network I would of never been able to be with him for over a year. I use the internet to chat with friends and sometimes just have social fun because you can't always have someone over. Also if you forget your homework you can E-mail you teacher and ask for you homework and send the work back and get credit. This is very handy. Plus sometimes your in an emergency to make sure someone's o.k or if anything ever happened and you needed to contact someone immediately for answers. Facebook lets people know more about me and I get to meet new people or learn more about others. So then we all know a little bit more and it's less awkward in person.

I Agree With Melissa to Keep abortion Legal

I do agree with Melissa in her argument to keep abortion legal.

  " When a teenager or poor parent is forced to raise a child because of a mistake he/she made in the past, they must resort to crime to pay the bills and keep the baby alive."


This was stetted by Melissa, and I really do believe this. If any girl got pregnant, she should have legal rights to do the best for her health, and the child. This quote is very true and sad. If you can't support yourself, then how are you going to support a child? why have your child go down the wrong road, as hard as you try to help them succeed but it won't work you can't do anything. Personally I would get an abortion if anything happened like that. Some girls are raped, against their will. Prostitutes for example! The women are either beaten till the child comes out dead or they are killed. Some kids so young are pregnant, but because they are raped. We need to face reality not what's sad and mean to a fetus which cannot feel pain. Abortion should be legalized for it will be VERY useful for our present day teens.

Anti Prostitution Summary

You may ask what is prostitution? Well its these 11 main ideas:
Sexual Harassment
Verbal Abuse
Battery
Rape
Domestic Violence
A Racist Practice
A Violation Of Human Rights
Childhood Sexual Abuse
A Consequence Of Male Domination Of Women
A Means Of Maintaining Male Domination of Women
All Of The Above

 Prostitution is not a freely chosen profession, the pimp selects a female or usually lures them in to their profession by bribe and or kidnap. They make the  “victim” think they care  for them or that their a father figure or someone that loves them, when they don’t and they tell them “if you love me you will do this for me” etc.

"Prostitution pre-exists as a system and an institution that patriarchy has a stake in and will maintain, with or without women's consent. If women and girls are not persuaded by the big money which is sometimes offered, or the survival possibility for women or their families, then they will simply be tricked or trafficked . “
-Cecilia Hofmann, Secretary of the Coalition Against Trafficking in Women

The “victims” or “hoes” are also a part of mental brainwash which makes them think its ok to sell their bodies.  Most girls, women who enter the system, usually come from poor areas and will do anything to support their families. These types of issues are common in “ghetto” and heavily populated areas. Most girls are dragged in to these types of issues at a young age because of the negligence of family members or care takers. The girls find “security” with their pimps, and have no way to escape because they are threatened with death or possibly more rape. The men involved with this business are very scary and most of the girls feel trapped. You as a person cannot live like this and try and compromise with life. Its human enslavement or indentured sex servants who are treated like animals, brainwashed and even thought they suffer. Its for another persons happiness. What is wrong with this world. Most prostitutes are from the ages of 12 and 14 ( This statement from the COES). If people were to legalize prostitution, its like giving a gift to the sex industry to create more prostitutes and threaten the health of america. Women are what make people live, they give birth to you, destroy them, and you've not only screwed up the human race, but also yourself.

INFO BY:

Janice G. Raymond
Coalition Against Trafficking in Women International (CATW)
(March 25, 2003)

:The "Teen Sex Slave" Scams: ABC's Primetime Fakery

COES

National Review article by Andy McCarthy regarding Spitzer's legal issues