Girls & Boys

      I  think Cisenero is is trying to show that boys and girls are not treated equally at a young age. They are in fact treated way differently and sexually segregated.  Her brother are never really talked about unless she needs to back up. They never really seems to interfere in her life that much. What  she's trying to imply is that women have to be independent & ready for boys. And all boys really have to do is be "on top", & notice girls so then the females notice them. At that point, it's a fair exchange for both sexes, but the difference is that women should be set aside from men. In order for guys to attract, they must be opposite.

  Shown on page 27 Marin says " What matters Marin says is for the boys to see us, and for us to see them"
That right there shows  how much the girls think about just boys. In that simple statement it says so much. Females have to "be on top"  and they have to keep the ball rolling. Both sexes have to try to attract the opposite gender, but the problem is that the females seem to be under more pressure. Esperanza seems to be more stressed and worried. As if everyones ahead of her and shes trying to catch up.

   Still, women seem to have to be "chasing" the men half the time. As stated on page 88 " Nenny says she won't  wait her whole life for a husband to come & get her...way either", They all want a man, but they all are running for them. The females are under an extreme amount of pressure to  be the best. And the girl with the best relationship or the "man" then they seem more locked. The man seems to just be his best and then take control. To downgrade the female.

And last females have to be seductive. Sexy, sleek. Yes. The S words. The ones men seem to be attracted to. On page 89 "In the movies...there is the one that is beautiful and cruel", Eperanze shows about the trance women put men in. Their also there to drive men insane and keep more coming and going.

Women are like a deadly trap in this book. But their also looked down on. Men seem to play no part except for the sexually aggressive and dominant part.

You Can't Escape the Worst or Choose The Best: Behind Closed Doors

            

Table Of Contents:

1. Wearing Jeans

2. I Don’t Know My Dad Anymore

3. Misty Eye’s Step-Mom

4. Door Closed , Mouths Shut

5. We Are Covered In The Rainbow

6. When life gives you lemons, squirt it in your eyes

7. New Parents

8. Suicide?

9. Ambulance

10. Congratulation, You Survived

                                            Behind Closed Doors

                             

                                              Wearing Jeans

      

      

              I pushed back the tattered brass closet, and opened my windows to see the candy coated clouds as the sun itself honors me.  Putting on the new purple jeans  was a very protracted process.  As I pranced in front of the mirror, the subtle variations of purple gleamed in to the pacific blue sky in the background from the window. School was going to begin, and my mom had to get my jacket for me; the icy air might as well crystalize my lungs.

       I ran into the class with surmise that my friend would notice how staggering  my pants were. And they did. Ooo’s and ahhh’s filled the room. MY pants. Those pants. Purple like a lavender field that had discharged it colors into the open air. Every step I took the colours seemed to evoke the energy and luxury of the material.

      My first and last pair of colored pants. I never wore them again. The pants beauty lead to the jealousy of friends. So I buried it in the avalanche of clothing in my armoire. In fact, the mouth of the drawer swallowed it up, because I never found it’s extravagant self again.

                        

                           I Don’t Know My Dad Anymore

         I knew my dad like I knew the dark scared me. Yet I never knew my dad would become what I was afraid of. Is it the end? Sometime one day, I left something important. As a result, I’d feel the piercing blows and the screams from my throat. Just one kick, but the blacking of the world like ink spilled in my eyes like a broken pen.

     

      I wobbled over crying holding my stomach, tilting my pounding head. Treated like another misery, I’d lost a part of me. Breathless stares shot from my undying eyes.

        Maybe I deserved it. As the door closed my vague sight of the world did as well and began to submerge into a deep deep sleep.

        I didn’t recognize my dad and his ferocious face, red and swelling. What was to come of me? If I had an insignificant desire to live...

                                 Misty Eye’s Step-Mom

 

Misty, my friend had eyes so blue their tranquility seemed so porcelain you’d think she had eyes replaced with marble. Yet suspiciously that warm January morning she didn’t come to school. Dawn echoed from the windows upon the small class. As I sat clutching the copper clipboard I capered  over to the closed door. Jenny positioned her hour glass body precisely on the hallway entrance waiting for me to bring the papers.

       Her face fell blank with no sheen. Commanding her hand she reached and

her solid grip seized my hand. Next her spell bound words came from her mouth.

“ Misty’s step mom is dead.”

  The beautiful blonde individual I had barely even known about had passed away after child birth. After those words, my heart stopped it’s task. My mouth twitched and my eyes flinched. Promptly I dropped the copper clipboard with the papers. Ir was so quiet that i could hear my heartbeat out of my pounding chest.

  The sun still rose, with an emotionally intense vibration of red. Misty’s real mom had died 4 years prior; now fate had taken her step mother as well into it’s hollow labyrinth.

The next day she came to school. Misty’s eyes weren’t so misty anymore.

                             Door Closed , Mouths Shut

         

       STOP!! I screamed with my small voice.

       Please! He stood up and the door closed. I frantically and swiftly felt the warm blood pumping through like dance to move to. But this was no dance, it was a escape from hell. He picked me up and pushed me down. His friend with a  uncomprehending look on his face stood by the bed as I was pinned on the couch breathing through the vents of the cloth. I close my eyes and  hope he'll go away. Yet he picks up his prodigious hand and lays it on my face and says girl your beautiful, I hope you stay  that way.

GET OFF ME YOU FLITHY KID!  PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE. Almost erratically he picks of the soft velvet blanket and throws me on the bed. Takes me down to a corner and lays it over my strangled head. My breathe was reach ing out like arms, fighting for the air. Then at last I  see his friend watching. The clock ticked, the sky darkened far over yonder alone in darkness was the door. Closed shut.  I felt his cold fingers, my friend. What was he doing. Why my body. The struggle to take him down, only made him pull harder on my clothes. Step by step, second by second I began to fade. My last chance to leave I kicked him and fled. Rushing down the stairs, past his mother. Out  so far that the doors shut and he was gone away, but not from my mind.

    

  Lhadze Bosilejevac           

  Periodn1

Sutherland

3/2/11                  

                             

                                        We Are Covered In The Rainbow 

    

    The warm sun refracts light on our skin as we walk down the street.  Kasia, Meriam, Kathy, & I strolling down the grey pavement under our nimble feet. As we escorted our bodies forward, I thought of the simple fact we were all alike yet so mismatched, like the socks I wore.

 Kathy walks ahead and twirls though with angelic grace, as Kasia tousles her hair. Slowly I pulled out my mirror from my heap of papers in my bag. It’s oval black top opens up and the silvery shine reflects on my face.

 Walking and looking in my mirror, I realized our little group of girls who were dreamy & full of passion. The glamour on us seemed deeper than our dermis. But it wasn’t even that.  Our skins shone in the shades of spring, though the sweltering heat submerged under my sweatshirt. In that distinct moment, I noticed our pastel skin tones.

Kasia wasn’t white, but she wasn’t tan like leather. Definitely polaca. As I refocused my eyes, I looked at the little details in her skin; her cheeks were a peachy pink highlighting her lip, which were a rosy red. The small russet dots on her face, possibly from sun exposure. Nonetheless, it was as if a determined artist sedulously painted her skin colour. Every intricate design painted and airbrushed yellow undertone to bring out the best.

 Meriam. Her skin so soft. Almost limpid like pretinha, the natural marupa wood. Tan as the pigment of a silky pecan. Blending perfectly with her cinnamon body, a perfect silhouette.  Swarthy colors sprung from her surface, as she submerged her smile. In addition, her ruddy cheeks were healthy and big. Meriam’s arms matched the same tone as her bronze visage, so unparalled to anyone’s deep brown skin tone I’d ever seen before.

Kathy was the mix of yellow, white and a deep black. She was a luz tosta. Her unmarked face was absolutely breathless. Her skin reminded me of a mesa, packed flat and flawless. Immediately as she breathed in, her dermis spread flat like pão plano. The deep chestnut color was breath taking.

I was still holding the mirror. At that point I wanted to look away from my skin, or should I say my mask. Tediously I glanced back into the mirror, my face was palida, no tone, no rosy cheeks. Not even the hint of bronze. Just a bunch of white with buttercup highlights. My face didn’t shine, infact it looked blown back. No botox, just plain & “whellow” as I called myself. Possibly the colour of sour dough. I look like bread, I thought to myself. But as I looked deeper I saw the faintest little blemish, very small, but there it was. My trademark. I may not have had any other feature, but I had the little red mark along with a few others. They whispered there little words and I smiled. We’re all different. It just so happens to be that we fell in a rainbow, and the colours we collected made us who we are.

        

                      

                          When life gives you lemons, squirt it in your eyes

 

    

   She stood in the mirror I faced her. Her face was ugly and blank. No tone. Hair so long it could wrap around as a shawl and make her look like big foots wife. Eyes of dirt, lips of juice stains. That girl was me.

  That mirror reflected the outer shell of me. Or the skin, the zest. Yellow, porous, round and sour on the inside. Something to squeeze the joy out of.

 I shouldn’t be a yellow lemon because I could infact be a black lemon. Because what I was trying to be was a lemon that was not a lemon, but a different standard of fruit. To break the boundaries. To look past my skin. But how? I could see. Life had lemons. It wasn’t hot enough to make lemonade. I decided to squirt lemon juice in my eyes. It stung with an intense jolt. As I reopened my eyes the world was blurry and had a black shadow behind it. I couldn't;t see my gross face. I liked it.

                                    New Parents

  I called for 3 days. I sat impatiently in the foster assessment home. I wish they’d take me in. I was alone. For 3 days in that cluttered long room full of books and computers and couches. I slept more than I watched movies. I began to dream of a family that I used to have but was lost.

My mind began to tell me I was worth less. My fluttering heart began to break down, and so did I. Everyday I seemed to loose more & more hope. Until I was pulled in saying my friends parents were going to foster me. Finally a home. Aspiring to see my new parents I collected my huge backpack and my bag of clothes.  To be free finally from the hell hole of a physco hospital, to a foster assessment now to a home was scary and tiring. Yet I was so relieved.

  Thank god she and her family took me  in. I was scared to see everyone else's shocking reactions grabbing at my face. Tearing down my walls. Her mom closed the door and began to show me around. Something was missing in the house. I don’t remember fully but somethings weren’t quite right.

I met my new foster dad. He was tall, pale and a cheery fellow. The dogs surrounded my legs nibbling at what remained of my worn shoes. My “mom” looked at me and gave a frown.

  You need new shoes, she said

I don’t I replied. No way. I hated shopping with all my life.

Your shoes have holes like swiss cheese dear, we need to shop. Come on. What ever you want to get. It’s all up to you she exclaimed smiling.

 How did she enjoy shopping? After 45 minutes I finally gave in. Black shoes they would have to be. Because in both ways I didn’t have a “soul”, for my feet or body.

                                 Suicide?

Suicide. Blood stained my rusty skin as it flowed down my arms. Intricately designs my wrists with lines and words.

Suicide. I couldn’t feel the pain of the razor cutting up my arms bleeding out the unwanted in myself.

Suicide. It was a beautiful thing.

Suicide. Something successful in a setting of strife. I hope death would take me away.

Suicide. Enteric thuds of my heart beat, full sweep. Untreated left to infect just like my arms and mind.

Suicide. Who can help my body and my mind. The razor cuts deeper and deeper. Maybe when I’m born again I’ll be better off than here in this world.

Suicide. An open door to my world, and leaving a black drape over my past.

Suicide. It’s a synthetic death that lasts.

                                  Ambulance

   Heart beat stable. Conceiounes: alert. And on and on he went. I lay back in the corner on a stretcher in the cold ambulance. Strapped down, a potential threat to others. 5150, a dumb number to represent myself. I say still in the white sheets over laying my stiff, inhospitable body. Voices reached my head, oh how the sounds whispered sweet words. My minds games caressed me to a trance. I’ll hold on my false apology to myself. Bitter illusions open my eyes larger and I began to taste this bland world.

 The men stare holding me for the next 40 minutes. I woke looking out the window, strangely calm as the sight of guard towers and barbwires filled my eyes. Opening the back door of the car, I lay flat. Welcome said a women. You’ll be under suicide watch. Please enter inside and take off your outer clothing. I glanced one  time out the doors before they were bolted. Closed.

                                              

                                       Congratulation, You Survived

        

        I walked off the steps of the graduation podium for my 8th grade release. My black corset strangled my every move as the puff of the short dress made me walk like a ballerina, only with her legs close to together. Carefully after the repetitive hugs and kisses, the good byes and I'll miss yours, I stepped out into the sun light to join the sea of others as the swam towards their parents. I could see my dad. mother and sister huddled up. My mom gave me a smile and said YOUR OUT! Yes. I was indeed out for I need it more than the sky needed the citrus constellations in the galaxy. My father gave me a hug, which was hard to accept. And my sister gave me a dirty glance as always, and said where's the candy. Candy? What it wasn't as we were throwing a party in huge theatre and some how there was CANDY? No I said with a smirk. 

     Hovering over I saw my "peanut gallery" of friends who seemed to be enjoying the pictures taken by family and friends. I wanted to escape my family. They didn't accept me for who I was. Because I was the only girl in a full body black corset dress, hand made and designed. Promptly I ran off with the crowd, loosing my family back at the front shore. But before I left my friends mom had invited me to lunch and with booming smile I screamed yes. So as my parents left my friend & I skipped in our 5 inch heels down to the restaurant. I knew I couldn't eat the food there, but it was a sweet escape. Just then my friend stops and looks back at me and says Lhadze, you survived middle school and your parents. Embarrassed, I looked at my hands and at my nails, then I murmured I did, but I congratulate myself because nobody has.

 

              

Sandra Cisneros Symbolizm

     In the series of vignettes, written by Sandra Cisnero you get a mix matched feel as to what she is trying to represent in her work. One thing for sure is her reuse of the colors. A lot of symbolism is used in the book. Shown in her novella like tree's, falling, the color red & pink especially. Everything Cisnero writes depicts a story line that symbolizes some sort of idea.
  
    In particular, tree's seem to branch towards everything in her story. Tree's show strength, union and bonding. Clearly proven on page 22 as she writes "But what you remember most  is the tree, huge, with fat arms & mighty family of squirrels on higher branches." Because it branches so deep. Like as if the relation of  Esperanza's family was a tree with roots. It's stronger on the bottom as for the top.  And so the branches need the roots just as much as the roots need the branches, representing her family.

   Adjacent to this, Sandra illustrates the color pink in many many ways. Red for instance is often used  to evoke erotic feelings. Like red lipstick, a little red dress. I think in the book, Esperanza  thinks the color red of something of higher power. More class. Maybe a sexual attention she wants as a young 13-14 year old girl. The color pink . It denotes feminine qualities and a right to pass as one. As it shows on page 76, "Huge enormous, beautiful to look at, from the salmon pink feather on the tip of her hat down to the little rosebud of her toes." It seems as if pink is her ideal way to show her tension to be more noticed. Because it just shows the pink is the cute feminine quality she wants boys to see. At the same time red is the sexual passion. Almost as if those colors are codes to what she sees. The girls in pink or red seem to get more attention. Its vibrance seems to push outward to everyone. And she wants to noticed as the "hot one" instead of the "slut".


     Eventually everything leads to falling. But falling is significant in this novella. Esperanza, seems to see it as something bad for it. Ever time time some one falls, they do something brave before it, but they get hurt. For instance on page 22 she says "This is the tree we chose for the First Annual Tarzan Jumping Contest. Meme won. And broke both arms." What does this show? With success there if failure. When you fail, you learn how to succeed. But if you rewind how she wrote this, you see that she wins, but then ends up failing. With her broken arms. It's as if everything is so far, and you have to get to to some where way out there. And the swinging of the trees, which you can't bring down, had brought her down. It's as if the world is a dream and everyones caught off gaurd. Falling coming down freely under the influence of gravity. It shows she's letting things under her in this case, take over her.


     Nylons. It's popular in the post modern age. But it shows a sense of sexuality. Feminism. Most people wear is under small skirts, and shorts. But it's as if she wants a pair to show but hide. Because it covers a certain amount, but she will revel to whom she chooses. Most males find it a  fantasy when they see woman wearing stockings. The chance of a man taking a oo-gle at a girl in stockings takes a second of there time to look. Therefore gaining attention. Just like on page 81 " Sally is the girl with the eyes like Egypt & nylons the color of smoke. Again with the black, because thats shows a sense of mystery. What's under that? What do those legs look like without them. Keeps men wondering. And thats probably what Esperanza wants. That sense of look at me, aren't I stunning? These types of nylons thin out the back lining of the legs. Creating an optical illusion  to make the seam create a focus  on the calf muscle. Which men  find alusively attractive. Shows the erotic coke botttle figure of a young girl.

The Color Purple

Lhadze Bosiljevac        

Period 1

Sutherland

2/24/11

                                  The Color Purple

                                         Essay

            In the novel The Color Purple by Alice Walker, distance & many other things from each other separate the two sisters Celie and Nettie. Celie, who was forcefully married at 14 with 2 kids to Mr. (Note: the two kids were from here stepfather). And Nettie, an ambitious young girl who originally lived with Mr. and Celie. Later thrown out and moved to Africa with the missionaries. Comparing the two sisters shows a great deal of Sexism, Religion, and Education in both their lives. But it seems that Nettie has it much easier than Celie. Held hostage, she exhorts her pain and confusion in the form of letters. And Alice Walker really tries to send a message that men are men, and women are women.

    

        Religion is probably the most controversial topic in the story. Why does Celie write to God? Exactly why does Celie put family before herself? Celie was in fact raped by her step dad. Therefore on page 1 of the book he says, “ You better tell nobody but god, it’ll kill you mammy”. This is probably why Celie begins to address God asking for help, guidance. For it seems he is the only person she can tell. Yet she’s only writing to God because there’s really no one who she feels comfortable or will listen to her problems. Sometimes it seems as if she doesn’t want the sympathy. Celie feels the only way to stay alive in a mans world, with god barely on her side, is to suffer in silence.  In her last letter Celie writes “Dear God. Dear stars, dear trees, dear sky, dear peoples. Dear Everything. Dear God.” It seems to be that that in the end, God is in every living creature. And that everything else listens to the joy and pain of life.

            Unlike Celie, Nettie has much more of an easy go life for the most part. She believes strongly in God. And not only that she joins a missionary and travels to Africa. At one point in the book, when the church is being destroyed by road builders, on page 169” And Celie, our church, our school, my hut, all went down in a matter of hours”. Here you see the pure agony she faces because their own prayer house is being destroyed. It’s like someone stepping all over your religions mascot. Nettie is emotionally disrupted by the grief.  Although she does watch the village get destroyed and take care of village children, Nettie does not have children of here own, therefore she is freer spiritually and emotionally. She is not bound by anything really and gallops through life. And her love for God makes her this open religious person who’s fairly optimistic. This is probably purposely pulled out of the context to show Alice Walkers feminism.

        Sexism seems to keep the ball rolling on both women’s lives, especially Celies.

Her husband acts like a tyrant over the family controlling her and beating her because she’s a woman.  She was beaten regularly because she wasn’t like Shug. (Page 75) Her Mr. shunned Celie even at the dinner table as he said, “you black, and you pore, you ugly, you a woman. Goddamn, he say, you nothing at all.” (206)

      But later after all this Celie fights back to Mr. at the table. Her words come out strong and clear, even yelling at the children “ You was all rotten children...And your daddy here ain’t nothing but dead horses shit” (200). And no wiser words have been spoken. Amen.

         

           Now as for Nettie, whom seems to enjoy the most out her life, is married and happy with Samuel. He even loves her for who she is, not who he wants her to be as stated “But Samuel tells me he loves me plump and graying”(226). Nettie is given jobs both for boys and girls. Of course even in Africa, there are some male dominances, but in Nettie’s life its pretty well balanced.

  

     

           During the time period of Ceile’s life, you see change in every aspect, even her writing skills. At first her grammar is off and hard to understand. But she spent so much time tending the children, barely having enough time to educate herself.  Showing as Walker said, the children held her back.

         As for Nettie, no kids of her own, no burden to hold! Although she watches the village children, Nettie never puts herself last. Or first, because that position seems like it’s for God. And her job is to help those in need and herself and please her husband, or lover. Though Nettie not only has her own education, but now she can share her knowledge with the kids!

     In Brief, you see the differences between Nettie and Celie also how the one change in their childhood decided their lives.  Alice Walker seemed to write the book as if one part of her was Nettie, smart, confident, and happy without the burden of kids.  And Celie who receives peoples sympathy is the side if women had kids and were married.  It seems to be that the more misery and pain Celie goes through, is exactly what the writer wants you to believe in this story full of Sexism, Religion, and Education .

   

      

Re: Constance on The Color Purple

 So I just read Constance's blog about why she thinks Celie write to god. And I totally agree with her here :

"  In the novel The Color Purple, the protagonist Celie's letters to God make it clear that she is a religious person, but it also shows something about the way she sees God. It would seem that she thinks of God as someone to whom she can tell all her problems without too much judgment, perhaps someone to confide in."


I can relate because you don't  want to tell someone about your family issues, and explain what your holding back. Because back then, as you can see in the book, women were mistreated and told to keep their mouthes shut. So it seems as if Celie can depend on god to listen to her problems and not judge her. Because what she's stating is that if she can talk to god, no one can see and hurt her for speaking up. It also gives her the chance to work at her writing skills. If you can't speak to anyone, and you cannot trust someone, you don't even know yourself that well, then you can see why she'd go to God for help. Because not only will she have got to let out her stress, but she will have also got to rethink her situation, be the judge of her own life. Not someone else. I think Celie's more afraid of how people will treat her after she admits how she feels rather than what the benefit of asking for help, guidance really is. And since she's terrified of men, she lingers to women, in which she becomes closer and more comfortable to. People she can feel more relaxed with. But either way her faith really is in God. She must of been very devoted to the fact he always listens, but never really shouts back at her. Even if misfortunes happen to her. Alltogether Celie's reason of why she writes to God mainly is the sense of security in the letters and expressing herself to someone who will not judge her for it.

Should parents manipulate there kids DNA??

Oh wow. Aha big topic. These days anything can be possible. Want a smaller nose? Nose job for you. Want to have chests the size of Mariah Carey? Boob job. Need bigger fuller lips, Botox and lip injections. And everything else you need, tummy tuck, all that stuff is possible these days with the worlds astonishing technology. But is it good for you on the long run? Are the side effects worth it? But now from these tests were moving to changing our child's DNA. I'll explain one thing, messing with a new born DNA for the first critical months cause cause huge harm to the child. Why wouldn't you want your child to look like you instead of your best friend because she has blue eyes? As I get to read more more about genes and cloning, and using genetic engineering to manipulate you child's DNA the more and more you can risk further health issues. As some people state that this type of mutation as "Playing God". All the more reasons to discourage DNA manipulation is that the word " Manipulation" doesn't sound very positive. If you manipulate someone, your changing them in to believing you, not for there cause.  And if you doing this for your children's DNA and  the mutations cause the 36 chromosome's in to 64, not only have you mutated you child but it's humanly impossible to have that many chromosome's. I think by changing genes you also must not be proud of yourself. Not only are you insulting your looks and genetic building blocks but your partners as well. Natural  selection is the best way off, be glad for what nature intended.

 As this one person states on Gazizza : 

"Two artificial DNA “letters” that are accurately and efficiently replicated by a natural enzyme have been created by US researchers. Adding the two artificial building blocks to the four that naturally comprise DNA could allow wildly different kinds of genetic engineering, they say.

Eventually, the researchers say, they may be able to add them into the genetic code of living organisms."

 What in the hell??? Ok first of all our genetic DNA consists of 4 letter. As you know its T,A,C,G.  Therefore T bonds with A and C bonds with G. But the two new letters must bond with themselves. But changing this code can lead to future issues. Engineering a new set of DNA, the results can probably worse off then the effects. And another person on the same site explains 

"But not everyone wants what seemed to be the three genetic engineering options: refrain and let nature take her course, attempt to repair genetic diseases but otherwise let well enough alone, or select positive qualities in children. There are parents who are deliberately ensuring that their children are born with disabilities, from deafness to dwarfism. A fourth option—inflicting permanent disabling conditions on children—is now being used"

 Why would someone try to changing what they have made. We humans have been born with diseases all our lives, due to our genetic code, and the pass of traits.  In this case altering you normal child's DNA into being born disabled. Why on earth would a parent want a child to suffer? Genetic defects are the least of the newest trends that people want yet scientists are creating more defected children than healthy kids? Parents these days don't know what they want for themselves so testing your baby like a high school science lab is not the way to do it. I think after a bit of common knowledge and research, I think genetic engineering for the perfect material child is oblivious. Therefore undoubtably stupid.

Wow this touched my heart

  Jasiu, I heard you had epilepsy.  But I didn't know it lead to such restrictions on daily routines and I'm so glad your still here! :D
As you stated:
"I know how it feels like to be “handicapped” since I have epilepsy. Though I am more fortunate than those who unfortunately have several seizures daily and those lost their ability to walk, my life is limited. I am advised to avoid activities that require loads of energy such as cross country running and a few games at PE when my team really needs everyone. I am also forbidden to eat carbohydrates (which include sodas, treats, pastries etc) and that I frequently violate. These rules can become so controlling I frequently ignore them, increasing the chance for me in having a seizre. Many of my dream jobs I had became erased from my future. No longer can I become an astronaut, a pilot, or an athlete since these I dream jobs just listed put my life at risk I have a seizure.  Though I luckily have auras (a feeling before a seizure), they only give me about a 10 second warning before they occur."


 I get you and how you can't eat carbohydrates. Neither can I, well I do but I'm not supposed to. I have auto immune disease.  And I'm allergic and intollerant with a lot of food. I have chronic panic attacks that strike at any given point in time, and I pass out or my heart beat drops.  This saddens me, but at the same time you still persue what you can do instead of dwelling on what you can't. And I'm relived that you  get warnings before you actually have a seizure! I wish there was a cure for epilepsy! I would trade lives with you.  You deserve it, and so do people with any physical or mental disability.  Remember your disability is an ability, and your abilities can be a disability. If you see this response can you please explain to me why carbohydrates have to avoided?  Like I said, I'm really happy your ok and I hope as time progress's you feel and get better :)