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A Called It :3

So the end is near..or here as you can put it. At this point in on reading A Child Called It by David Peltzer is the most traumatizing and haunting story I have ever read. This has changed my prospect on child abuse. David has endured literally hell on earth from his wicked mother, a cowardly father and a hench men of siblings.  And the people living in his neighborhood of Daily City who knew the situation and literally just did nothing. As I related in the book, it showed more and more of Davids will to live. The base problem was of his mothers BPD, alcoholism, and her postpartum syndrome probably from childbirth. You might be thinking oh wow childbirth really? Yes really postpartum is where the mother wants to hurt herself or in main cases her child. But under these conditions with her BPD and her un-functional mental state, you lead to her insanity and abuse on David. I don’t understand how when she had her baby the alcohol in her system and the crazy mental state she was in didn’t effect her in the hospital. Wouldn’t it of just been obvious for those who did blood screening to notice the amount of alcohol consumed? But we also know that from there, you notice from a short notice she is already home. Maybe the lack of medical attention caused more distress. But we also know that Davids mom became and alcoholic when she was 13 because her family was Mormons and she became a outcast and her parents locked her in the closet and starved her too. And as David explains in his Epilogue that abuse becomes a vicious cycle in which it is passed on. Yet this demented crazy mother lived to be almost 77! How is that possible! Well I’m pretty sure karma will get to her in her  next life. Overall from every beat, smack, burn, torture, starvation method, poisoning this kid has survived the worse. Just remeber to always be lucky for what you have, even to be alive.  Also abuse is very serious so don’t take it lightly. Overall I highly recommend this book to the world!

A Child Called It 2

Ok so now were at the second part of this gruesome book. Man does it take a lot of effort to read it without tears welling up or your heart pacing and flying. At this point in the book, his psychotic mother who's crazy ass hell had decided that it would be  great idea to shove her fingers down his poor throat too make him puke up all the food he ate so she prove to the dad he was stealing food at school. Well I hope that  stupid mother knows how insane she is for starving his child till he has no choice but to steal food to survive. David's brothers watch as him changes from a healthy  boy to a starving, smelly, and mentally traumatized mess. As time progresses his mother becomes pregnant again, and then she blames David for hitting her stomach when she was strangling and beating him. She actually asked for it because she held him so close to her when she was beating him. Sometimes he was beat so bad he couldn't even get up. Then a shocking turn gets taken when Russell, starts to swing and the most horrendous thing imaginable  happens. His mom steps forward and stabs him, and all goes black. Reluctantly he regains consciousness and he has to still sleep down stairs on the cot with a bloody open wound on his stomach covered in old rags with cold water. The even more shocking part was that his mom still made him come inside and wash the dishes in 10 minutes. Seriously? You just stabbed your son who's bleeding all over the floor and you tell him to clean the dishes!? And his dad tries to help and David steps up and pushes him away telling him to just leave him alone. At this point, he's had it. He hates everyone. And he means everyone. This poor child is so traumatized I don't think he trusts anyone. And the most remarkable thing that happens is that he survives "The Accident". I know he was in so much pain for a long time because no one gave him medical help. Later his mom starts to treat him nicely and a social worker comes and he lies saying his mom never beat him.  But after she leaves his mom goes back to herself and beats him ruthlessly. I swear this child had dealt with the devil. We have one more section to go on so dear readers.. HOLD ON .

Disability

      Disability issues are common all over the world. People are born mentally & physically handicapped. Even if they can't walk or hold still it does not mean that they are not human. These people deserve all the rights everyone else. Because they have all the rights of normal people. I hate it when they mock or insult the people who are less fortunate. Not only is it rude but it is unkind & very intimidating for the people.  Why do they always get treated so messed up? Underneath it all were all human and reserve every right to be respected. Are people mad because they get more attention?  When people take buses or trains and their is  handicapped person. Well some people start to laugh or giggle. Others don't even look as if they don't exist. At my old school people used to mimic & insult the students in special E.D.  And these kids would laugh but they didn’t know why other people were finallly paying attention to them but because they were being taunted.Honestly to be truthful, everyone has a disability, your weak point and you just have to learn to respect others flaws. Their disability has an ability. And we need to respect them for what they go through. If we actually endured what they go through our society would be in a melt down. Why? Because their too weak to handle their pain from others. People who have disabilities are the strongest people I've ever seen. The don't take no for an answer, and they never stop trying. People like us can't even take being in a cast. How would you like to be in a wheel chair for the rest of your life? I mean we all dream to be on top, famous, or happy, but when we treat these people so rudely you don't how much we hurt them making them feel so much lower.  Next time think before you act. Don't insult the less fortunate cause that can be you tommarrow.

A Child Called it. part 1 review

MY GOD!!!! The story A Child Called It written by Dave Peltzer is a horrifying memoir he has endured during the ages of 4 through 12. Its probably the saddest story I’ve ever read in a very long time. Anyways this book has the most amazing story of a boys will to survive of an abusive mother who is a alcholic. But she wasn’t always this way.
 Dave from the time he was born loved his mother and father. His dad was a fireman in the district of Daily City and his mom was a house wife.  They lived happily with his brother. Until his dad job became more demanding and he was out more. Sometimes his mother and father began to drink and his mom must of found comfort in alcohol. His struggle to live by a mentally screwed mother becomes a living nightmare.
 At one point in the beginning of the book, he states remembering as the social worker finally takes him away from his nightmare and crazy mother, the sign on the highway

“ THE MOST BEAUTIFUL HIGHWAY IN THE WORLD”
But it’s a signification that since he's finally free from his abusive home, it’s the most beautiful highway for his free. Also in the book his mom dislocated his shoulder and she just left him to be and put him on the top bunk that night. During the middle of the night she tries to tell him he fell off the bunk bed and she took him to he hospital. Even the doctor knew that was no accident but didn’t say anything. Why didn’t the doctor say anything? So sad to see this..very sad.
 All the ways to make things worse, she starts to call his mom a “wicked witch” on page 30. The dramatic change from mother to witch can surely show and prove Dave’s point of view on his mother. At one point his mom drags him in the kitchen and beats him and tell him to take his shirt off. Catherine (his mom) starts the gas burner on and tries to push him on the stove. He fights back long enough that when his brother comes home he only has a few blisters and singes. Either way his mother was probably upset he had won. Dave’s mother had BPD in which she singled out Dave for her own drunk foolish reasons.  His mother was an absolute nut job and had no sense of compassion for him. AT ALL. Making him sleep in the garage not to mention starving him to death. Dave Peltzer had the 3rd worst child abuse case in C.A. Now imagine how bad the first worse case was?
From the age of 5 his little mistakes drove his mother crazy. And she has no legitimate reason to punish him  as she states on time on page 38 that his is a bad boy and Santa has no gifts for him. What reason is this!? he definitely did not have common sense since all the alcohol drove it out. Dave only found comfort in his father when he came home for then his mother would not beat him. I don’t even know if I’m prepared for the next few years of his life.
-Lhadze

Kite Runner 1

So this first part of Kite Runner just keeps getting more exciting every time I read more of it. It starts almost mischevious, and the issues keep escalating. The Novel is written by Khlaed Hosseini  in which it is told by the life of a young Afghan boy from the mid-1970's.  In Amir's lifetime  he is morally tested in his relationship with Hassan.  This gets even more tense when Hassan gets raped by Assef, a boy in Amir’s neighborhood influenced by Hitler and has ALOT of mental issues. Amir uses his higher position to abuse Hassan not fully understanding the effect. This story in the first part displays friendship, loyalty, betrayal and on going suffering.  Amir has to deal with a truamatizing past  and how that past  shaped who he became. His growing sepreation from Hassan later in the story of his life and their friendship tears a huge hole in his family. At times, his father Baba got highly annoying and this is kind of what lead to Amir's down and sad thoughts. To be honest he never seemed to fit and Hassan was like his brother even if he was a family servant. The guilt for that betrayal, as well as Amir's troubled relationship with his father Baba, will torment his life for the next 20 years. Hassan becomes extremely remote, and his household duties become quiet and avoid Amir entirely.Both these boys are frequently harassed but later Hassan and his father leave because they find about Hassan being raped.  Baba is torn apart by this. This being chapter of Amir’s life may seem very depressing and crazy. But wait till you hear what happens next. Events in this book will haunt you. Which you will never ever forget.Kite Runner details the corupt political developments in Afghanistan. But it's barely even started yet..

False Relationships

            Have you ever had someone cheat on you? Or say they love you and that you mean everything to them, but then they cheat on you? Well thats so messed up and yes it's happened to me.  That's exactly why I brought it up. Its horrible and I was mad about it. I don't even know why people cheat! I did everything I could and this is how they treat me. It's a huge gap in you life when this happens. You feel unwanted, and you almost rust, and feel broken. Emotionally cheating hurts a lot.  As one statistic proof shows and says :

"The reason most people find intimacy with someone outside of their marriage is because their emotional needs are not being met. In many cases of infidelity it is about wanting to feel emotionally connected to someone." 

Emotionally, it is possible to have feelings for more than one person at a time, and sometimes it's  too many people. Relationships are built on love, and sometimes two people forget to communicate causing unhappiness. And lack of communication. Many people have affairs because they want the thrill of being with someone new. The urge to be with other people excite them  thus they forget about their mate.  About this whole cheating thing, some people don't know how to handle it. To be honest, don't threaten them or taunt them. You may feel the urge to do this, but it won't do you any good. In fact be mature. Just say that I broke up, and you can't come back because I've lost my trust with you. 


    A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person. A cheater may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat on you.  They also might be doing it because they sense you are cheating too. Well their returning the favor for you even if you may not appreciate it, that exactly how they feel. All together nobody likes cheating. But be open to explaining how you feel in a relationship.

Response to God. Well not literally.

Well.. DAMN ROKHSOR! HAHA. I have to agree you are by far the most religious person I know. In a good way. I just want to say that you have a very strong support on your own religion. But just to say, I personally don't have a religion at all. Because for me, I think believe that a God people create is a separate beliefs ready to destroy. Religion in the United States is a touchy topic and people get uncomfortable when their religion is picked on. I understand. If you come from a family with a tight based religion system and rules then you find the person most of the time very supportive of their beliefs. And when people are made fun of cause their God has a different name, or a different representation people shouldn't be be taunted over it. I can see by Rokhsor's way of saying how much she appreciates God is very strong. I wonder if a child raised in a religious household will  either stay religious or avoid religion at all costs. Same for me, I don't believe in anything thats a higher power because it only in my point of view, it restrains your mind. And for me, miracles do not exist and its just the fact sometimes work out, and some don't. The survey of Americans today shown here below show the differences in differences in beliefs:

You can see the amount of people who actually have a base of religion. I'm not sure what religion you fall in but I'm sure it's a major religion.

I personally think everyone has a right to believe in a religion, and a strong base for a good life, starts with or without religion. So it’s honestly your choice. And you show a very strong love and passion for your religion. I have never seen someone so religious before at your age. But it’s a good thing. Be proud of your higher being, and if you don’t have one, believe in yourself.

Overall Essay Writing View

   This year, after looking back on my writing skills, I have done good, but I know I can do  much better.  And I have been surprised by my blogging as well. Because most of the time my writing contains little or no effort. So I am glad I am at least trying and improving them. Even if people think my writing is good, that does not truly mean that I am actually excelling.

      First of all, I need to do more with my writing by using correct grammar. I know I am a grammar Nazi with words and writing, but when I don't use correct english (which in most case what is correct english?) Yet anyways thats something I sometimes don't proof read and miss making my writing look like a third graders writing. Embarassing at times though. Also I want to make sure my writing is also on time. Because this is a common thing  I tend to do and its really annoying when I miss a certain date for my work. That really kills my grade and my score for the class, sadly making my day really bad and my school work harder.  Because everything piles on all the other homework assginments and projects.

    But surpisingly I did like some of my writing because I actually tried to do what I was told to do and I did a good job at it. The rest wasn't really so great but it worked out better than most of my other blog posts.  Sometimes my work had more detail or more words to captivate the reader, yet sometimes it just sounds really good to read.  But I kind of can see in the way things are written like my posts about the LGBS statement, that I needed more words and more posts. Yet the most surpirsing factor in my writing is is the comparasion from my middle school years. I remember the teachers format so well I still use it to this day! Which before I barely knew  how to wrap up a conclusion, but I m getting better about that part. And my writing style seems more smoother and relaxed compared to past years.

   By far, I've doing well this year. and I can see the progression, but I  can also see my pit falls which seem kind of like lazy stupid mistakes that I made. And I don't want to be harsh over all but my writing compared to alot of people needs to step up ALOT. So this year I need to shape up, and get moving, and start writing more. I see the progress but I see holes where ever I don't try.  This is a chance for me to see wwhat I can fix. More like an advantage then a put down if you really look at it. I mean i may not write lik shakespear, I may not have grammar as good as

mice of men THE END :D

Lhadze Bosiljevac
Period1
Sutherland
9/13/10


      

                                                Lennie

In the Novella, Of Mice And men which was written by John Steinbeck, Lennies childish mind. Out run by the  tempting idea of tending rabbits. He can’t control himself and gets in trouble too often. George who is his friend and care taker,becomes driven mad by Lennie’s stupiditiy to an ending that changes it all. Thus,you see that the whole story is character verses self because Lennie cannot control himself which leads to his tradgic end.
          Lennie’s mental disability, makes kinda irrational things, but also makes him forget manys things as well. For example in this one quote on page 5:   

‘Lennie’s face broke into a delightly smile” Why sure George, I remember that..but..what’d we do then? I remember some girls come by and you says...you say..”’

As you can see here in the quote above shows Lennie’s forgetfulness. Because he does not remember he can’t do the right things because he does not fully understand. Meaning and making it harder for him to  connect and do things that are reasonable. When he forgets, he screws up. Which in the end makes George really mad and pissed scaring poor Lennie even worse. This also leads to the conflict because Lennie forgets too much and that is one part of why George takes his life.
           Also, Lennie’s mental problems effect his train of thought and ability to react. Like the fight he and  Curly had. As you can see on page 63 :

‘Lennie gave a cry of terror. Blood welled from his nose. “ George”, he cried. “Make ‘um let go George.” He backed until he was against the wall, and Curly followed. Slugging him in the face. Lennie’s hands remained at his sides; he was too frightened to defend himself’

He mentally cannot think to defend himself, but yet when he gets frightened when he pets a mouse or something soft and he gets mad he can kill it. So why can’t he fight Curly? That’s another thing the shows why this book is character verses self because of the fact that he has to fight against his own fears. But it takes George to provoke him to actually fight. Yet again in the end he does end up injuring Curly really badly becaLe he doesn’t know how strong he really is.
The last thing that shows why Lennie really as to fight against himself really is when he kills his puppy. Explained in the little segment in the chapter on page 85:

‘And Lennie said softly to the puppy,”Why did you got to get killed? You ain’t so little as mice. I didn’t bounce you hard?”’

This to me shows after how many times George tries to explain that he cannot keep killiing the animals on accident, Lennie does not listen. He tries to pet everything with his huge hands and kills mostly all the small animals because he doesn’t know his own strength. That by far makes George really annoyed. And the fact Lennie does not function right either makes him more stressed. And when he blows out on Lennie, It makes Lennie terrified.
        Stress, fear,impatience, and selfishness is what makes this story character verses selfs.Lennie really had to try to fight to be a little more normal. But all of the chaos, his inability to think, led him to his end.  Either if he just was more catious, or not so narrow minded as he is. Lennie would of been better off on his own. Yet he doesn’t sadly make it that far.

Of Mice And Men

Lhadze Bosiljevac
Period1
Sutherland
9/13/10


      

                                                Lennie

In the book Of Mice And men, you see that the whole story is character verses self because Lennie cannot control himself which leads to his tradgic end.
          Lennie’s mental disability, makes kinda irrational things, but also makes him forget manys things as well. For example in this one quote on page 5:   
Lennie’s face broke into a delightly smile” Why sure George, I remember that..but..what’d we do then? I remember some girls come by and you says...you say..”
As you can see here in the quote above shows Lennie’s forgetfulness. Because he does not remember he can’t do the right things because he does not fully understand. Meaning and making it harder for him to  connect and do things that are reasonable. When he forgets, he screws up. Which in the end makes George really mad and pissed scaring poor Lennie even worse. This also leads to the conflict because Lennie forgets too much and that is one part of why George takes his life.
       Also, Lennie’s mental problems effect his train of thought and ability to react. Like the fight he and  Curly had. As you can see :
Lennie gave a cry of terror. Blood welled from his nose. “ George”, he cried. “Make ‘um let go George.” He backed until he was against the wall, and Curly followed. Slugging him in the face. Lennie’s hands remained at his sides; he was too frightened to defend himself.
He mentally cannot think to defend himself, but yet when he gets frightened when he pets a mouse or something soft and he gets mad he can kill it. So why can’t he fight Curly? That’s another thing the shows why this book is character verses self because of the fact that he has to fight against his own fears. But it takes George to provoke him to actually fight. Yet again in the end he does end up injuring Curly really badly because he doesn’t know how strong he really is.
The last thing that shows why Lennie really as to fight against himself really is when he kills his puppy. Explained in the little segment in the chapter:
And Lennie said softly to the puppy,”Why did you got to get killed? You ain’t so little as mice. I didn’t bounce you hard?”
This to me shows after how many times George tries to explain that he cannot keep killiing the animals on accident, Lennie does not listen. He tries to pet everything with his huge hands and kills mostly all the small animals because he doesn’t know his own strength. That by far makes George really annoyed. And the fact Lennie does not function right either makes him more stressed. And when he blows out on Lennie, It makes Lennie terrified.
         In conclusion, Lennie really had to try to fight to be a little more normal. But all of the chaos, his inability to think, led him to his end. Making this book truely sad. But he really decided his end in a way. If he could of just held on a bit longer. Either if he just was more catious, or not so narrow minded as he is. Lennie would of been better off on his own. Yet he doesn’t sadly make it that far.

What is love?

          What is love? It's when two people meet each other and would give his or her life for that person and would never leave their side. You choose you them to be their love, to respect them in your successes and in  them failures, to care for them in sickness and in health, to nurture them, and to grow with  them throughout the seasons of life.  To understand boundaries and become one. That is love. But I'm going to comment on Karen's blog after this quote :

"Some people all they do is wish to find love and have someone to call theirs and have beside them and the truth is some people never meet anyone or they become heart broken.How many people end up in divorce,how many people cheat,didn't they love the person?"

     I agree that people do wish they find  true love. But at our age, that currently isn't really that important. Unless the person and you really do love each other. But love can be misunderstood, and incorrect. But if you don't find that special someone, it does not mean that nobody wants you. It just means fate set you on your own for a reason. I also understand divorce, because it involves the love gradually fading away. But loves not supposed to is it? Who knows. I think I've had it happen once. But things happen, but you still can't let go of the person at times. I think love should not be a rushed thing to have. The truth is, you don't find love. You already have it, it just takes the right person to have you give it to them. Truth is sometimes love fades, and so does hate. But when you fall in love, you are making a commitment to the person. But sometimes people ask for more then one lover. Because they love the feeling of being loved so much, they have to go out and cheat. Yet why did you say you love that person? And you still go off with someone else. Karen's quote explains the absoulute, but you cannot fully answer it. I can only relate to this matter. Eventually you will find out what love is. But for now, most of us can only wonder. By the way, here's a great song that asks the question WHAT IS LOVE?

What Is Love by Never Shout Never

essay time

 Lhadze Bosiljevac                              
 Period 1
 Sutherland
 September 28, 2009



                                              What About Q?
                  
           

                      Q is really competative, rude and has anger issues. In these three qoutes, you will see why he fits these descriptions. As you can see, he really likes Lll, but he still will be competative.. And along with that, he still can be very nice. As he said on page 75:

“...but also that I could win, because my paws got a better grip on damp surfaces”

          In this quote, as you can see he is cocky. He loves Lll but at the same time he still competes with her. Yet he still looks at Lll’s flaws. Maybe even if he seems nice, he still has a rude almost pushy side to himself. And he’s full of himself. One reason why he’s so not worth Lll’s time.

     For this second quote, it shows how impatient and how mad he gets. Because it seems as if he can’t deal with himself. And Q also gets upset immediately. This shows in an obvious stand point that he cannot put himself into another persons stand point and shoes.

“ I thought he would never stop. I huffed impatiently , I tried to interrupt him. But what did that saucy Lll do? She encouraged him!”
 
    This  shows that Q can’t let people talk there own minds and is very impatient and can’t express himself before someone can say something. If he wanted Lll and his uncle to shut up, he shouldn’t of brought the whole situtation up. Yet he did anyways, so its his loss. But as you can see, his air head, impatient moves only caused greater grief on himself.

   In this last quote you can see his fear of being alone.

“ The two of us will live here, together!!!! Because the truth was without her, I didn’t feel secure.”

All I have to say is that Q needs to man up and face the fact that not every girl will fall in love with him. His indificincey to  live on his own. Which sounds pathetic.

In the end, Q’s point of view is totally twisted and he needs to think before he acts. He is rude, cocky, mean and very insecure. Who wants someone like that?

Rude comments or are they just mean jokes?

         The element of a joke is the part where its funny, but when people take it too far, it does not become a joke, it's an insult. Sometimes, when it gets to the point to where it is an insult and can cause a HUGE conflict.  And it can lead people to depression or lack of self confidence because you've entered their bubble and made fun of them. It's an enormous put down to some people because making fun of their race, or a personal issue, can serverly hurt them and leave them alone and in fear of the person. Whereas if you tone down the level of insult in a joke, you'll probably be better off. Invoke someone and you might not be in the best position because they might get mad and then you both have the same reaction.  Nobody benifits from that at all. So if your going to say something, say it nicely or if the person doesn't mind you saying the joke then go ahead. But always know the diference between a joke and a rude comment. I know from experince, some jokes are too personal and make you very upset for a long time. Some people say jokes to entertain others, but that never goes to well. I can speak from experience, about making jokes about people that did hurt them, and until I experienced it, I kept it going. But until your in some ones shoes, you never really understand the full fundamental of how much a joke can hurt. Yet racist jokes for example, are not funny at all! They make fun of the beauty of difference in people. So if you going to make a joke, make sure it wont offend others. Because on the long run, you wont make a good name for yourself, AT ALL.

Fashion. Is it who you are

What is fasion? Most people say its a career. But to me, it's a way of expressing yourself, with color, design, innovation, self style, and your inner person. Just like Ale'ah Bashir said on her blog post:

                       "I think fashion is an expression of who you are"

 This I agree  with. Their are a varty of styles, from mature to childish, happy to sad, dark to colorful, striped to plain. My style ish crazy. I'll wear anything dark or sometimes with color.I usually wear something that represents me. Like brass knucles, or swallows sometimes huge bows. My clothes are sometimes way too out there for school, but it's my style.I've gotten the label, which I don't mind myself, as "scene kid". I think fashion is an individuals selection on who they choose to be. What you wear is like a billboard. What ever you wear, you become a neon sign to someone. But sometimes if you dress too inapropriate, then your in deep trouble. Some types of style leads people to sex. Nontheless people still wear the clothing. This quote actually says a lot. Some ethnic  sometimes have the same clothing style. That just what I personally notice. Either way, fashion also shows the best of you and most girls use it to show their framework. Even if your a bit built, or skinnier than a too pick, your always going to have the best trait in you. Some fashion shoes wealth, but if your able to rock a $20 outfit, YOU GO! As you look through the generation, styles change over time. But yet either way, the main styles I've seen tat hasn't changed is the Retro, Causal, Emo, Gothic, And the occasional Skater. But the rest has really developed.  Fashion is also an expression of who you are because models, for instance, are chosen to wear the clothes, as if it was made for them, and if they look good in it, you feel sometimes you will too. And it is a VERY well paying job. From all of this, All I can say is, what you wear, shows the people around you, in one context who you are. So  be expressive, but not over explosive.

Internet liability

Everyone depnds on the internet. It's what make this world revolve. People communicate faster. And people can keep in contact. Contrasting from mail, internet is very well known. Kids and adults of every age are using it to theri advantage. But what if it was crucial, for one moment in you life to get rid of it? What would we do? Could we even live life? That would diminish the amount of elcetricity we use, but we'd probably go crazy. I personally think I do rely on the internet, and what it'sd done to most people is constarining their minds. Devoting them to be on longer, and use it more vigorisly. And even if people say "get away from that computer" non the less, they sdtill get back on themaselves. The internets taking over us all, and theirs no limit. But twhats gona stop this multi billion dollar industury? Civillians?

Does It matter if you Gay Or Bi? Lesbian Or Straight?

This really is bothering me later. Everywhere we go, someone is arguing about same sex marriage or someone being bi. We as Americans have our own rights as citizens to make our own choices about who our mate is. Same sex marriage should be legal and the legislation  has no right to say that people who love each other, even if they are of the same sex, cannot be married. It's a major transition for the younger generation because of all the potential  exposure of this going around and buzzing all over news and websites, the media and even at school. Kids are made fun of because they are a target one of the above and they feel uncomfortable. Others take it too seriously and take it so far the helpless child is forced to kill themselves because they have no one to turn to. This here from  survey:

21% of lesbians die of murder, suicide or traffic accident, which is at a rate of 534 times higher than the number of white heterosexual females aged 25-44 who die of these things(8).


Why are people  murdering, and killing innocent people just like us because they have a sex partner that is of their same gender? And why are they rejected? All being were created equal. It does not matter if they are homo sexual or straight. It does not mean we have to restrict all the things people do so the world is safe and harmless, Homosexual pose no mental threat to anyone, or physical, because they have their own partners. So in the end why does it matter what sex is your interest?

SOCIAL NETWORK!!!!!!!!!!

            I agree with Tony and his group in the debate saying  that social networking is not bad and very useful.

 His quote: "Social networking allows people to talk over long distances."




This is true because I use it to keep in contact with my family in New Mexico and over the U.S. And for my boyfriend to, If it wasn't for the internet and the social network I would of never been able to be with him for over a year. I use the internet to chat with friends and sometimes just have social fun because you can't always have someone over. Also if you forget your homework you can E-mail you teacher and ask for you homework and send the work back and get credit. This is very handy. Plus sometimes your in an emergency to make sure someone's o.k or if anything ever happened and you needed to contact someone immediately for answers. Facebook lets people know more about me and I get to meet new people or learn more about others. So then we all know a little bit more and it's less awkward in person.

I Agree With Melissa to Keep abortion Legal

I do agree with Melissa in her argument to keep abortion legal.

  " When a teenager or poor parent is forced to raise a child because of a mistake he/she made in the past, they must resort to crime to pay the bills and keep the baby alive."


This was stetted by Melissa, and I really do believe this. If any girl got pregnant, she should have legal rights to do the best for her health, and the child. This quote is very true and sad. If you can't support yourself, then how are you going to support a child? why have your child go down the wrong road, as hard as you try to help them succeed but it won't work you can't do anything. Personally I would get an abortion if anything happened like that. Some girls are raped, against their will. Prostitutes for example! The women are either beaten till the child comes out dead or they are killed. Some kids so young are pregnant, but because they are raped. We need to face reality not what's sad and mean to a fetus which cannot feel pain. Abortion should be legalized for it will be VERY useful for our present day teens.

Anti Prostitution Summary

You may ask what is prostitution? Well its these 11 main ideas:
Sexual Harassment
Verbal Abuse
Battery
Rape
Domestic Violence
A Racist Practice
A Violation Of Human Rights
Childhood Sexual Abuse
A Consequence Of Male Domination Of Women
A Means Of Maintaining Male Domination of Women
All Of The Above

 Prostitution is not a freely chosen profession, the pimp selects a female or usually lures them in to their profession by bribe and or kidnap. They make the  “victim” think they care  for them or that their a father figure or someone that loves them, when they don’t and they tell them “if you love me you will do this for me” etc.

"Prostitution pre-exists as a system and an institution that patriarchy has a stake in and will maintain, with or without women's consent. If women and girls are not persuaded by the big money which is sometimes offered, or the survival possibility for women or their families, then they will simply be tricked or trafficked . “
-Cecilia Hofmann, Secretary of the Coalition Against Trafficking in Women

The “victims” or “hoes” are also a part of mental brainwash which makes them think its ok to sell their bodies.  Most girls, women who enter the system, usually come from poor areas and will do anything to support their families. These types of issues are common in “ghetto” and heavily populated areas. Most girls are dragged in to these types of issues at a young age because of the negligence of family members or care takers. The girls find “security” with their pimps, and have no way to escape because they are threatened with death or possibly more rape. The men involved with this business are very scary and most of the girls feel trapped. You as a person cannot live like this and try and compromise with life. Its human enslavement or indentured sex servants who are treated like animals, brainwashed and even thought they suffer. Its for another persons happiness. What is wrong with this world. Most prostitutes are from the ages of 12 and 14 ( This statement from the COES). If people were to legalize prostitution, its like giving a gift to the sex industry to create more prostitutes and threaten the health of america. Women are what make people live, they give birth to you, destroy them, and you've not only screwed up the human race, but also yourself.

INFO BY:

Janice G. Raymond
Coalition Against Trafficking in Women International (CATW)
(March 25, 2003)

:The "Teen Sex Slave" Scams: ABC's Primetime Fakery

COES

National Review article by Andy McCarthy regarding Spitzer's legal issues

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Class Mate Response: ROCKSTAR IS ROCKING THAT QOUTE

I have found a really good point in rockstar's (Rokhsor) essay:☆

✯ I think people bully others because it is apparently a source of entertainment. They look for someone to bully because they want a reaction and they want to fight someone.✯

 ✄What's a better way to put this????  In fact I've seen a lot of this going on. What's better than making people feel bad? Its mean but people find it entertaining, but for others, its intimidating. Girls, mainly think their so incredibly bad, thought the truth that that pick on weaker people sometimes with a huge gang of girls to make the girl feel out of place and upset. Though on their own. their weaklings who are wimps without the cheerleading squad behind them, in this case a pack of yipping annoying dogs who mock people. Well your probably wondering what category this belongs to.  I mainly think it is " assume positive intent" because you don't just walk up and become weird and rude with people you meet. And that treat them with a better attitude and not be so mean. GEEESH!
ere's the ASTI constitution:

1. Think before you speak or act
2. Include, don’t exclude
3. Accept others for who they are
4. Build mutual trust and respect
5. Assume positive intent
6. Speak up for yourself and others
7. Strive to understand where other people are coming from; be empathetic
8. Take responsibility for your actions and words
9. Make a positive impact on the people and environment around you
10. Resolve conflict peacefully

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Odd Girl Out ( response)

                                                             Odd Girl Out (Response)

        Think about a time you have either been picked on or made someone feel bad by a larger group. How did this make you feel? What were your options in this situation?  Why do you think people bully others? What makes them want to hurt their peers?
      
        I know I have bullied people who bully me, but in elementary school, a lot of girls hated me.  I mean I was different. Unusual because I was a nerd and I had no real friends cause people used me. I remember one time this girl named J--- an L----- were bullying me in class and lunch. They locked me in a bathroom stall, and made racist jokes about me and called me rude names. I couldn't handle it and I broke down in class and was sent outside me and the girls were yelling at each other. Now days I back up people I do see bullied for I know what it feels like. Plus I look scary and intimidating sometimes so I guess its getting less than before. People see me and automatically assume I'm a terrible person. But these days I don't hear very many bad things, but who knows for sure. I hate bullies and how they treat others. I seriously felt horrible when those girls made fun of me. But the funny thing was I saw them recently and they had gotten really fat and they didn't even bother too look me in the eyes.  I could of stopped them when they first harassed me but I held it in and suffered a lot. But I had no choice really cause they were popular. So I would be made fun of even if I told. But holding it in for too long actually made me cry in class.


      I think girls bully because of their insecurities, so they pick on people lower to cover their mistakes to look better. Most females are aggressive by nature so they will actually fight for the top. Most girls intimidate peers to become alpha, so they are more likely to be know. But bullies intimidate also to get guys attention. Face it, mostly every girl wants a boyfriend. So if if a bully can make a girl feel down and move out of her way, she gets and advantage on the boys. We girls come with a temper.

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